My husband has locked himself in a hotel room. Do I check up on him or leave him there to hit bottom without checking on him?

There are those who say, “Leave him there. He has to hit his bottom.” Others would say, “Determine why you want to help him. If it is to soothe yourself, leave him alone and work on yourself. If to make…

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“All of my friends’ kids/spouses are successful, mine is struggling. What do I say to them?”

Sharing the good news of what is happening with one’s kids is something that starts when they start crawling and continues all through life. But what happens when you don’t have news to report? when your child is struggling with…

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Focus on YOUR Recovery and Be A Loving Mirror

Ever feel like you are doing everything you possibly can for your loved one, yet they are not getting or staying sober? Perhaps you are in Alanon and/or SMART Recovery…Maybe you practice BALM®…You go to Naranon…You work your 12 steps…You have…

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