My husband has locked himself in a hotel room. Do I check up on him or leave him there to hit bottom without checking on him?

There are those who say, “Leave him there. He has to hit his bottom.” Others would say, “Determine why you want to help him. If it is to soothe yourself, leave him alone and work on yourself. If to make…

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Stop Walking on Eggshells with your Struggling Loved One!

Ever feel like being in relationship with a using or newly sober loved one is like tiptoeing on eggshells –  and the eggshells keep breaking no matter how softly you tread? For many family members, the stress and worry get so bad…

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Oh No! She Did It Again! I Can’t Believe it!

Do you ever get shocked when a loved one uses, even though they just used or drank or acted out yesterday or last week? If so, this blog is for you. This shock or disbelief when an actively using loved…

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Tips for the Holiday Season

Enjoy the holiday season by staying in each moment from the inside out. Here are some tips to help you over the next 2 weeks: Be the change you wish to see in your loved one! Live your life at…

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Sallie And Dan: A Love Story

Walking away, she decided to do something. Not having a phone book, she went to the only reliable guide she knew: google and put in “wife of addict desparate for help.” What came up were all of these sites for…

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