A BALM Mom

“My last visit to my son in prison was completely different. Instead of railing him for getting himself into this mess, I told him how much I loved him and asked him what his life was like. He told me about little…

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A BALM Mom

“When I began applying BALM principles with my daughter, she was stopped in her tracks. Her whole attitude toward me changed. She felt listened to and became willing to listen to what I had to say. I’ll never forget the day she…

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A BALM Mom

“Before BALM, I was so distraught about my adult child and his behaviors – not only what he was doing to himself but what he could do to others. I learned tools to help him make better decisions. He chose…

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A BALM Wife

“Before taking the Be A Loving Mirror courses, I would never consider Alanon. I wasn’t the one with the problem. It was his. Learning about my role in the family addiction helped me see that I could use some work too. After…

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BALM Coach Trainee

I feel so fortunate to have found this program. It has given me a way to see my own recovery as a family member, plus a way to help me help families get better! I am a BALMer!

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A BALM Mother-in-Law

“My daughter-in-law has been crying to me about my son leaving her. In the past, I listened to her lies about how she really wasn’t using, judged my son, and begged him to take her back. This time, I lovingly told her…

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